Love Sex And Dhoka...

 Adaptation of Western culture is one thing and implementing it in your life just for the sake of doing it, is no where justifiable socially. You turn out to be just another person being victimized by it if you take it as a fashionable trend. It was never and it will be never a trend to follow Western culture. It is not wrong to learn and get acknowledged about different cultures but adapting just because everyone is also, becomes sometime and for someone unmanageable and end up getting themselves as well as others hurt. That's what i am talking about.

How many of us, whether it be the high school guys and girls or be it college level students, we all have  at one or the other  phase, spent time in a relationship - short or long. No doubt! But the thing is that does it has any real meaning having a relationship which has to be ended some or the other day. Very rarely one or two get its real meaning when it converts to marriage and finally ends the 'tom and jerry' game with your parents.

First phase of any relationship starts with friendship. The most integral part of any relationship to be a success in future. With that comes love which takes you to a different level totally where nothing seems better than your partner with which you also commit the first mistake of keeping aside every other thing you should have also cared about. It is an unseen mistake which you realize later if your 'thing' does not work out to be good enough. 

Then comes the three letter word - SEX. Very common in today's generation. I just cannot understand why this has to be included in ones journey of finding a partner whom they can trust and have faith in, whenever asked for. This is the thing which spoils the party and makes it sound ugly and indecent in front of society. 

Last comes the betrayal. Very painful for the one receiving it. Ending a relationship because of family pressure and brain wash is one thing which can be accepted but ending it just for the sake that you can't go around with the same partner for too long is not accepted. Atleast i can't buy that. Circumstances have to do alot with what you do for being in a trendy relationship but what results because of your casual behaviour is sometimes any state contrary to a state of bliss for your partner. I don't understand how people manage to find it amusing and get moving on themselves so easily after being so much attached mentally as well as physically.

What is portrayed by our celebrities have nothing to do with our life because they are meant to do so in their reel life, they are paid for this. Do not allow any sort of intrusion like that, it simply kills for those having a long relationships.

Love is a beautiful state to be in but its use should not be misused.

I am not opposing a pre-marriage relationship but i am saying that it should never be a tool to gain any benefit out of your partner. Be clear and determined when you start, i am sure you'll have a totally different high and don't let the last phase enter in your larger than life vicinity of LOVE.

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